Love, Marriage, & the Pursuit of Happiness: Planning Your Fourth of July Wedding


When he wrote the Declaration of Independence, Thomas Jefferson claimed that everyone was entitled to “certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the pursuit of Happiness.” What could be a better way of “pursuing Happiness” than tying the knot with the love of your life?  Here are some suggestions for a star-spangled, patriotic celebration of your love for each other.

  • Flower Arrangements. Fourth of July flower arrangements are in high demand, whether for weddings or not, and florists all over the country are happy to supply. Some florists will be willing to dye carnations or even roses to fit the patriotic color scheme. White lilies with roses and bluebells are a popular, classic combination for Independence Day. Your flower arrangement could also feature the “Spangled Star” Dianthus, a red flower so named for its little white blotches. One creative, if subtle, idea is to look at the meanings for various flowers. The wild plum blossom, for instance, means “independence” in the language of flowers, and is a beautiful, brilliant white.
  • Gifts for Wedding Guests. Some weddings give out rice for guests to throw at the newlyweds as they leave the church. One obvious alternative for a Fourth of July wedding would be to give out small American flags that guests can wave as the couple passes by. Some weddings hand out heart-shaped sparklers to guests, which make for a beautiful outdoor reception and are a sure hit with the kids.
  • Fonts & Stationary. Instead of a guest book, you could make your own scroll, complete with a “Declaration” of your marriage at the top.  Guests can sign below, much like the Founding Fathers signed the Declaration of Independence on July 4, 1776. Historical-looking font or calligraphy on your invitations, menu, and place cards is another fun way to pay tribute to the great document.
  • Refreshments. Besides a strawberry and blueberry cake, keep the refreshments in theme with the day. Maybe you could serve a fun, patriotic mixed drink, like these red, white, and blue cocktails. Another idea is to play off the Independence Day tradition of grilling out and serve some grill food at the wedding: burgers, hot dogs, barbecue–just keep the barbecue sauce away from your dress!
  • End the Night with Fireworks (If You Can). If you live in a state where fireworks are legal and you have an outdoor wedding or reception, maybe you could end the night like you might end other Independence Day celebrations: a firework show. Your guests will be awed and excited and you’ll have yet another vibrant, beautiful memory of wedding for years to come.  (Or at the very least, pass out sparklers to light the way at the end of the evening. These make for some beautiful and fun pictures too!)

The Fourth of July might not be the most traditionally romantic holiday, but breaking away from the British monarchy wasn’t traditional, either. Sometimes the most memorable celebrations start by breaking away from the norm.



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