At some point in a long-term relationship, you begin to look towards the future. You know that you love your partner and that they make you happy. But are they the one for you? There are generally a few ways to tell. In today’s blog, let’s dive into some signs that you’ve found “the one” and that you’re ready to take the next step.
#1 – You Want Similar Things
When you first meet someone, your conversation evolves to talking about your likes and dislikes. As your relationship progresses, you will find out if these likes and dislikes are similar. These discussions may be big life decisions such as where you want to live or how many kids or pets you want. Smaller discussions on minor topics may also be discussed but can usually be moderated through agreements. If you and your partner share similar ideals and can compromise on the minor things, this could be a good sign.
#2 – You Establish Trust with Your Partner
Simply put, you and your partner should work to establish a comfortable trust in each other. Gaining trust is something that is different for everyone, so it may take differing amounts of time for you to feel that sense of trust. One key, be honest and open with each other; that’s always been the foundation of a strong relationship.
#3 – When You Start Considering Yourselves as a “We” Instead of Just “I”
This might be a small thing, but can have a big impact in your social circles. When friends or family are getting together, they begin to consider you a couple rather than individuals. That’s not to say you can’t do individual activities with your inner circle of friends. So when discussing plans with friends or co-workers, feel free to say the plans we have, but don’t be afraid to spend time with your inner circle as well.
#4 – Each of You Can Still Have Your Own Passions and Hobbies
When considering taking the next step, make sure you each can maintain your own individuality, both physically and mentally. While you might share a house or other living space, make sure each of you have some private space to pursue your own activities and that your partner is supportive. This also extends to each of your work environment; you each want mutual support as you grow in your careers.
#5 – Your Friends and Family Are On Board
Feeling that as a couple you belong to your friends and family is great, but you also want them to feel comfortable with you as a couple. Sometimes, friends and family may see warning signs that you two may not. If your family and friends offer critical advice on your relationship, it might be helpful to listen. And if they also see the ways your partner is good for you, that’s a great sign, too.
Consider these reasons as well as your own personal reasons for whether someone is the one for you. Once you make that next step, check out our bridal collection.