First dances are traditional at weddings, and are usually performed by the bride and groom, although typically guests are invited to join in. The first dance may feel awkward initially, but these tips will help you to have fun with it.
Keep the Length of Your Song In Mind
When thinking about your first dance at your wedding, you want to keep in mind the length of the song. Traditionally, you want your first dance to be between two and four and a half minutes, with 2-3 minutes being the preferred range. This range allows you to find a song that means something to you as a couple and allows you to show off your dance moves. If you find a song you want, your DJ or band can help you cut the song to the length you want.
Find the Style of Dance That Works For You
There are different styles of dance for you to learn and have fun with for your first dance. The waltz is the classic style used at weddings due to the flowing movements and the association with romance. This style of dance is for couples who want a formal and traditional style of dance (It’s also one of the easier styles to learn).
Swing is another popular style due to the more up-beat music. Swing dance is all about fast-paced music and moves you wouldn’t see in a traditional style of dance like the waltz. This style is perfect for couples who want a more energetic dance (however, it is a more difficult style for a bride in a long wedding gown).
The tango is all about passion and intensity. This style of dance uses dramatic movements, and sharp footwork. No matter what style of dance you chose, practice your dance, and invest in some lessons or choreography help.
Choose a Song That Means Something To You
The song for your first dance will be something you will remember for the rest of your life. Pick a song that has meaning to you but can also be danced in the style you like. If you have a few songs you’re considering, practice either on your own or with a choreographer to fit your dance style to the song.
Keep The Moves Simple
If you’re not a dancer, keeping the moves simple, and letting the movements flow will help you make your first dance go off without a hitch. Simple movements that are easy to remember will not only help you keep tempo as you perform your first dance, but it will also help you keep your place. Should you mess up, don’t worry, you two will be the only ones who know as your guests will be seeing it for the first time.
Adapt the Dance To You as a Couple
Having a vision of you as Ginger Rogers and Fred Astaire is great, but if the moves are not flowing as gracefully as Fred and Ginger don’t be afraid to adapt and make changes. Remember that your first dance is all about you so in the end be comfortable on the dance floor as you celebrate your first married dance together.
No matter what song or style of dance you choose, have fun with your first dance. Check out our bridal collection if you’re in the market for a wedding dress.